Knowing happiness!
During the last couple of months, so much has happened in my life that am surprised! i mean i am very surprised with life and with myself! i have had some time to think and reflect and i realize i am b happy! I am happy with the changes and i can't have it any other way! no way! smh. How simple life can be if we let ourselves be what we want and do what we want without the what ifs and maybes! i know that we complicate our lives and we are the only ones who can take charge of situations in us and change them for the better or for worse! Lets keep in mind as i have said before that we have one life and there is no sad life than to live unhappy and with regrets. Yes, we make many mistakes in our lives but those should be a stepping stone for the better, we break and we learn our own strength!
Life throws alot on us. Things change in seconds just like it gets dark at night and then light comes in the morning. Say for instance, someone close to us dies, those who are left feel like they will never smile again, like that was the end of the world! we cry and wrap ourselves up with the memories, as days goes by, the pain comes down and we learn to smile again and gain our strength from that. We never forget them, how they lived and then die helps us all know we are on a path in this world. Why then would we live in regret or not have what we want while trying to save for a future that we dont know about?
As i had written in my 1st post ever, it doesn't hurt to plan our lives and have goals, especially personal goals, just in case life does not go as we planned then we have some goals for us that will help us rise up! Ask me about it and i will give you a perfect example of myself and others out there. We think we have lived, seen and done alot of things, truth be told we know what is best through what we have experienced! It's like they say, when you travel, you spread your life around the world, so if we open our hearts to new experiences, we will know there are things out there that are better than what we have known, and if we have the courage to live it up, then we will know what happiness is, if only these experiences won't hurt us. If they do, hurt then let them go!
I do hope that we can open up our hearts and minds, and allow ourselves not to settle for 2nd best because we know deep inside that we deserve the best! Lets treat ourselves to the very best so that other people around us can learn from us to give us the very best! If we know what we are worth then its not a difficult thing to have a price tag on it, and the price should not go lower, they should bid until the very last of gold is bid! If we settle for what people give then we really cant blame them for not thinking further. when our minds are ok with what we have and what we are doing, we are simply happy! And i surely do pray that all of us will one day find true happiness.
Alot of my life plans have changed, alot in a span of a few months but my personal goals are intact and they have made me focus on moving forward in this path, in search of true happiness! I can honestly say i feel happy, happier than i thought i was. I read through world news and wonder why the world is so unhappy? Mostly because we want to be like others, we want to be like britons and americans! while they want to be like europeans who want to have climate like africa has! what would happen if we all accepted who we are, and instead of trying being like the others, work hard to perfect who we are? we would be in heaven!(yea i know i dream alot). It doesn't hurt to dream either.
What would happen if we all did what pleased us, what makes us happy? If we all could support the others in their happiness! If we cared about each other? This world would be a little heaven and we would know what true happiness is! i know that the world will not change in a snap but i know we can do it and be happy and spread the smile. Settle for the best and be the best . Set our goals to the best and do it to the best! We have the power to make or destroy our lives! we do not know about tomorrow. Let's not let an opportunity pass by waiting for tomorrow.Lets do things like they have never been done before. LETS BE HAPPY!
Life throws alot on us. Things change in seconds just like it gets dark at night and then light comes in the morning. Say for instance, someone close to us dies, those who are left feel like they will never smile again, like that was the end of the world! we cry and wrap ourselves up with the memories, as days goes by, the pain comes down and we learn to smile again and gain our strength from that. We never forget them, how they lived and then die helps us all know we are on a path in this world. Why then would we live in regret or not have what we want while trying to save for a future that we dont know about?
As i had written in my 1st post ever, it doesn't hurt to plan our lives and have goals, especially personal goals, just in case life does not go as we planned then we have some goals for us that will help us rise up! Ask me about it and i will give you a perfect example of myself and others out there. We think we have lived, seen and done alot of things, truth be told we know what is best through what we have experienced! It's like they say, when you travel, you spread your life around the world, so if we open our hearts to new experiences, we will know there are things out there that are better than what we have known, and if we have the courage to live it up, then we will know what happiness is, if only these experiences won't hurt us. If they do, hurt then let them go!
I do hope that we can open up our hearts and minds, and allow ourselves not to settle for 2nd best because we know deep inside that we deserve the best! Lets treat ourselves to the very best so that other people around us can learn from us to give us the very best! If we know what we are worth then its not a difficult thing to have a price tag on it, and the price should not go lower, they should bid until the very last of gold is bid! If we settle for what people give then we really cant blame them for not thinking further. when our minds are ok with what we have and what we are doing, we are simply happy! And i surely do pray that all of us will one day find true happiness.
Alot of my life plans have changed, alot in a span of a few months but my personal goals are intact and they have made me focus on moving forward in this path, in search of true happiness! I can honestly say i feel happy, happier than i thought i was. I read through world news and wonder why the world is so unhappy? Mostly because we want to be like others, we want to be like britons and americans! while they want to be like europeans who want to have climate like africa has! what would happen if we all accepted who we are, and instead of trying being like the others, work hard to perfect who we are? we would be in heaven!(yea i know i dream alot). It doesn't hurt to dream either.
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