ACT LIKE A LADY, THINK LIKE A MAN!

Wow! I have never read a book soo fast. 3 days and i was done reading this book. Believe me if i was not working i would hav read it in a day. This is because when i started reading it, i just wanted to read more n more. The quest of understanding how a mind of a man works was like a force pushing! The fact is: a man's mind is very simple! straight forward that if you know your man real well, u can tell his next intentions. A woman's mind is a rollercosta! wow, this minute she feels this, the other that. N so they say Men havent figured out how to handle this and that why sometimes they shove left and right and all women have been in believe that men are the same. They disappoint after all you do for them! n oohh i have also learnt that a man's love is completely different than a womans love and because women expect it in return as they give, then there is a problem. (FYI this doesnt include the men who have hurt women intentionally and are just pathetical players, those are not men, they are boys! and Boys will need time to grow up so if u meet one and you werent really looking for a boy, walk on!!!)

These are some thoughts for the women to know how to atleast do it right;

Women:

A woman who commands respect is a keeper; a woman who lets men get away with disrespecting her
is a throwback.

A woman who is dressed appropriately—has her goodies reasonably covered, but is still sexy, is a
keeper; a woman who is scantily clad and dripping sex is a throwback.

A woman who won’t let you feel all over her body while you’re dancing is a keeper; a woman who drops
it like it’s hot and puts on a dance floor performance that would make video vixen Karrine Steffans blush is
a throwback.

A woman who takes a man’s number but doesn’t give him her own is a keeper; a woman who hands out her
home, work, and cell phone numbers and e-mail and home addresses to a man who’s done nothing more
than buy her a drink and ask how he can reach her is a throwback.

A woman who can hold a respectful, respectable conversation with a man and his mother is a keeper; a
woman who shudders at the prospect of having to talk to the matriarch of a man’s family is a throwback.

A woman who can adapt to any situation thrown at her—she can hold her own at the PTA meeting, in
the boardroom, in a restaurant, at a sporting event—is a keeper; a woman who can’t put together a
coherent sentence or makes it clear she has no interestin doing so is a throwback.

A woman who knows she wants to be married and raise a family and lets a man know this up front is a keeper; a woman who doesn’t have a plan for her relationship life beyond next weekend is a throwback.

A woman whom we can introduce to our friends and family is a keeper; a woman we don’t even bother
introducing to our friends or family is a throwback.

A woman who smiles and takes care of herself and is generally happy with her life is a keeper; a woman
who doesn’t take care of herself and is sour all the time, has an attitude wider than all the ocean, and doesn’t hesitate to lay somebody out for the slightest transgression is a throwback.

A woman who shows her appreciation for all that you do for her is a keeper; a woman who acts like nothing
you do can make her happy is a throwback.

A woman who is loyal is a keeper; a woman who always has her eye out for the next best thing is a throwback.

A woman who understands that a man validates his manhood by who he is, what he does, and how much he makes, and who knows how to finesse her relationship so that her man feels like he’s handling his business is a keeper; a woman who wields her paycheck and influence like a sword and belittles his career and financial contributions is a throwback.

Yep, so atleast for women, we can judge ourselves, n what we put out there. we can atleast know where to change, digest this and someother day am gonna post then how we will know that a man is gonna keep you or just play u. OOh am so glad i read this book at this point of my life. You can borrow it! this post in inspired and quotes the book, Act like a lady, Think like a man! by steve harvey! xoxo



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