Remember! YOUR TIME

As we never knew when we came to earth so we shall disappear from the face of the earth!. I am one of the people who wishes that time for me to disappear never catches up with me!( yea i dont want to watch guys wearing my stuff or holding parties in the house that they acquired after my disappearance lol#yeaiknwitselfish#). With us knowing that, now, lets be careful about how we spend our time, with whom and how we make ourselves or others relate with us!It is better to be hated for what you are than loved  for what you are not!

Since we find and will leave everything in this world, why are we not content by being passerbys! we treat life and others as if we are permanently on earth, As the saying goes, what goes around, comes back around.lets do unto others as we expect them to do unto us. i  know we are human and human is  to error! so lets be easy to forgive genuinely(yea although i know some people would enjoy hurting the rest just because they know they shall be forgiven) but anyhow, forgive them. It is easier said than done, Most of us have issues with forgiving. We concentrate so much on the reason not to forgive.

The plane crash, helicopter crash and having lost someone important in my life because of unfortunate situations has got me thinking. I travel alot and i board flights  as norm, just as many of those people did, not knowing they will not be received with hugs at the other side! just as my late bestfriend had attended her party to bid her friends goodbye not knowing that she wont get to the airpot! life can be unfortunate which is abit unfair but beyond our control, so lets always remember OUR TIME! Lets think of how others will value what they had with us when we are gone.

They say we only live once, but if we do it right, once is enough! i am not content with living once(#iwonnacome back!) and thats another problem with human beings, we dont get satisfied, you want this and that yet u got that when you wanted this, we complain alot, argue but at the end of the day we have to know how to balance because for sure theres a negative and positive side of life! Choose Positive! Remember life is what happens to you while you are busy making other plans.

“You've gotta dance like there's nobody watching,
Love like you'll never be hurt,
Sing like there's nobody listening,
And live like it's heaven on earth.”


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