lizzet

As we never knew when we came to earth so we shall disappear from the face of the earth!. I am one of the people who wishes that time for me to disappear never catches up with me!( yea i dont want to watch guys wearing my stuff or holding parties in the house that they acquired after my disappearance lol#yeaiknwitselfish#). With us knowing that, now, lets be careful about how we spend our time, with whom and how we make ourselves or others relate with us!It is better to be hated for what you are than loved  for what you are not! Since we find and will leave everything in this world, why are we not content by being passerbys! we treat life and others as if we are permanently on earth, As the saying goes, what goes around, comes back around.lets do unto others as we expect them to do unto us. i  know we are human and human is  to error! so lets be easy to forgive genuinely(yea although i know some people would enjoy hurting the rest just because they know they shall be ...

Wow! I have never read a book soo fast. 3 days and i was done reading this book. Believe me if i was not working i would hav read it in a day. This is because when i started reading it, i just wanted to read more n more. The quest of understanding how a mind of a man works was like a force pushing! The fact is: a man's mind is very simple! straight forward that if you know your man real well, u can tell his next intentions. A woman's mind is a rollercosta! wow, this minute she feels this, the other that. N so they say Men havent figured out how to handle this and that why sometimes they shove left and right and all women have been in believe that men are the same. They disappoint after all you do for them! n oohh i have also learnt that a man's love is completely different than a womans love and because women expect it in return as they give, then there is a problem. (FYI this doesnt include the men who have hurt women intentionally and are just pathetical players, those ar...

Yesterday i asked my mum a simple(#inmythoughts) question!, 'what drives you?' she explained in different phases in her life, different things have been a force that pushes her forward. She is now Driven most by us(me and my bro) Everyday whe wakes up early (ever since i can rem) to work inorder to sustain us. And so i thought now that am Grown up, mama has stopped thinking about me!(asif?) i was like but mum ' am all grown, so why keep thinking about me yet am an independent woman? ' You still drive me she said, knowing you are independent makes me wonna push till i can see your brother independent. For you my drive now is to guide you through marriage (yes am getting married soon) and guide you thorugh, i am waiting to play with my grandchildren and spoil them alittle ( donwant makids spoilt, God help!!) So then today a've been thinking all day, what drives me! Alot i can say, but i have to make u guys laugh that once upon a time i was driven by the believe ...

when someone gives me a bad look, i wonder why he/she is looking at me like that, the other day as i saw someone do it on the bus, i wondered, DOES EVERYONE WONDER WHY I SMILE AT THEM? Having lived and visited many places, i know there are smiley people in this world and i know there are people who have no use for smiles. I live in a very shy community and before smiling became toxic, it was very dull. I used to miss all the people who walked past me in my homecountry and wave good morning, i missed the morning discussions on the bus. I missed how we would pass by streets and some stranger smiled at you. Maybe the people here have changed now or is it that i got used to the community? I smile everywhere, i smile alone, even when am soo sad you can see my tears and someone says something funny, i smile. A smile brightens someone else,s day, its the most beautiful curve we have. Every time my niece smiles at me, my heart melts, when an old grandma or grandpa gives me their toothless ...

Many are the times i have wondered, 'am i satisfied with my life?'. A few years back in college i used to have random chats with my cousin. He was abit older than me but i could not agree with him when he would tell me that in 5 year's time, my mind would be completely different in terms of my thoughts and that i would totally believe in things i never believed in. I was completely wrong, because its been like 9 years now and my mind is nowhere in those thoughts and believes i had. In my own little mind, i thought i would get married to my first love, even after he had broken my heart.Then at some point i believed there was no true love and that people get married in a sort of understanding each other just because we are human beings and we need companionship, Now i believe you can love a person, because no one is perfect and u should try to make the imperfect perfect in your partner(though not in all cases, only when the other party feels the same and is willing to do the ...